Father and
Daughter Talk.
Author's Note:
The contest asked
for an intimate discussion between the family members. So I thought of this as
it's not spoken in most families' discussions.
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Darling, daddy’s here now. We
can talk about it if you want. Or we can just sit here.
Hi, Dad. I am sorry.....
There is nothing
to be sorry about. Whatever it's, we love you. Mum and I will never give up on
our kids. We always tell you that when you were growing up. Well, you have
grown but you are still daddy’s girl. So sit by me, we can see the coaches as
they come in.
Dad, I am already sixteen and I still love you.
I know, darling.
But to me and your mum, you are always five. Remember when you paid for your toy.
You took out the money and you counted the coins...
Can we drop that? Do you tell that every year since
it happened? I am old enough now.....
But not old enough
to leave your family for your own. Why did you leave? We all love you. Mum, me
and your brother...
Dad, I am pregnant. I am carrying Steven’s child. We
did not know till last week. ...
Hold on there,
darling..... come here. Let me hold you. Tell me everything from the start. I
am your Dad.
If I could just turn back the clock, I would do it
but I can’t. We were just careless and stupid to try it. It was all everyone’s
fault. And ours. I don’t...
You not at fault
here. You are also not alone. We are here. Mum is in the shops waiting for you
too. We knew from Steven’s parents. We can work it out. We just need to talk first.....
Steven told his parents? The bastard told his
parents....he was to meet me here.
Stop the
profanities and cursing. Steven did right. Both of you are not ready for new
responsibilities. And we will sit down and talked about it. You did not wrong;
you only did a silly mistake that you did not consider beforehand. Can we talk without the cursing? I have
enough of that from your Uncle Ben’s.
Yup, Uncle Ben’s is where I learned the best words.
I am so sorry, Dad.
Enough of
apologies. Now it's time to reconcile our differences. Yours with what you have
done and we with what we can do to help. But we can’t do it here at the bus
station. Those coaches are making me feel drowsy or they are killing me with
their fumes. But if you want we can still talk here.
I don’t know, Dad. I can’t go home with this. What
about our neighbors and friends, relatives, and above all Aunty Mathilda?
Does it matter to
you? We are your immediate family and no one in the immediate family forego
another for silly mistakes or even major mistakes. That is what makes us the
family. Steven’s parents cared about you which is why they told us. They felt
responsible for you too. It's also Steven’s responsibility. It's also mine as
your father and grandfather to the child in you. This is not a game in which
you can walk out in the end and start a new one later. This is real life and we
need to work this one out. I like Steven as he is a good boy; clumsy but still
within manageable parameters. The fact he speaks up tells me he is responsible
and caring. He did not come here to meet you as he felt that both of you needed
support in the coming times. And the family can offer that. He did not chicken
out on his responsibility. He stood up to it. You should too.
Dad, I am so sorry...... It was not meant to be this
way.
The fault lies not
in you but in all of us. Sometimes, we overreact or stumbled into our life. And
the repercussions could be major or minor but the most important thing is that
we faced it upfront. It may hurt to confront it but if we had support, we will
come out well again. There are many more turning points ahead of you, and you
do turn and run when you see it; you challenge it. You will get the needed
support if you hold your hand. And if none others come forth, be assured mum
and mine will be there. Be brave, my darling girl.
Dad, did you and mum did the same as me and Steven?
I don’t know, my
dear as when I was sixteen; I wasn’t dating your mum. Her name then was
....nevermind her name. We lost touch over the years. But I will suggest you do
not tell Mum or she will tell you more about her days. So can we go home now
before your mum gets too worried? And carry your bag. You ought to know the
load of the burden you going to carry soon. So it's a good start. But if you do
get tired, just holler to me. I can still hear despite the noise here.
Dad, grandma married when she was sixteen...
Can we discuss that
another day, please?
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